Self-Made Freedom will carry you through the overwhelming emotions and pain you’ve experienced from your relationship and take you back in control of your life, where you’re independent, drama-free and at peace.
Without the fluff and without disregarding your values, a simple God-centred path to your freedom that stays true to who you are and what you believe in.
What if I told you as a Muslim, you can be free from your dysfunctional relationships, even if it’s your parent without sacrificing your values and your relationship with God?
What if I told you, you don’t have to ‘be patient’, stay put, and continue to take emotional abuse from your partner or spouse anymore and that you don’t have to do more or work harder to get him to change?
That you can live happily and free and even find someone new who cherishes you and values you, even when society tries to tell you that you can’t find better.
What if freeing yourself from their control and their shackles is NOT defying God, and doesn’t make you bad person, a bad daughter, wife, mother, or Muslim?
What if you can have everything you dream of when you let go of all the cultural and religious obstacles you THINK are in your way?
What if breaking the toxic cycle is exactly what you’re meant to do, and what if it brings you closer to Allah?
My book Self-Made Freedom from Toxic will carry you through the overwhelming emotions and pain you’ve experienced from your traumatic relationship and take you back in control of your life, where you’re independent, drama-free and at peace, just as you dream it. Without the fluff and without disregarding your values, a simple God-centred path to your freedom that stays true to who you are and what you believe in.
I share with you my proven blueprint that has the exact tools and strategies to help you escape all the dysfunction for good, break down the limiting beliefs that are blocking you and shatter all the cultural and religious walls in your way while taking a soul-centred and God-infused approach that feels right to you. There are stories of my own and of several Muslim women who have been in the same position you are in, and you will see their successes.
You will have everything you need to start your self-driven path to freedom.
But because I know this journey isn’t easy, and you may struggle in implementing the strategies in the book, just like I did in my journey, then I have you covered because you will also get my
Self-Made Freedom Troubleshooter that has 20+ of the most common traps, mistakes and problems people face in their healing journey, completely for FREE alongside your purchase.
That way, whatever problem you have, it will keep you on track to your true freedom.
The best part is in doing this is you will feel the closest to God you’ve ever felt and finally feel like yourself again.
Your life of freedom is just a few pages away.
If you don’t do something about it now, then when?
4.5 Reviews from our book readers
Firstly, Alhamdulillah that I stumbled upon this book. I am not someone who reads self care or motivational books because that's just not for me and I end up criticizing everything. I don't like it when someone tells by doing so and so you'll achieve so and so because that's not how life works - it's not all flowers and butterflies. That is what sets this book apart. It starts by comforting you and telling you that you too can be happy. Such a small sentence which so much power. It felt like I was telling my story to a friend even though I was reading another person's story. I'm not alone and there are plenty of people going through these feelings; the feelings that are not validated most of time because we're supposed to suck it up and 'adjust' and submit without complaining.
The book is really well put together. I'm already listing people I want to recommend this book to because I know it's going to be a huge help to them like it helped me.
The book can help understand the nature of these situations and show us that a way out is possible. I recommend it wholeheartedly to anyone finding themselves in a patriarchal and/or narcissistic trap, regardless of their background - the religious quotes are parts of an universal truth.
I thoroughly enjoyed reading this beautifully written book which resonated deeply with my own experiences being in toxic relationships. Self-made freedom is a powerful and inspiring book for anyone seeking freedom from toxic relationship patterns. This book provides valuable advice and insights that don't feel judgmental or taboo. It really helped me not only at an emotional level but also spiritually. While reading the book I could see Saras compassionate approach which helped provide a sense of validation and understanding for those of us navigating similar challenges in our own lives. Having grown up with toxic parents I finally felt seen and heard in this book and feel comfort in knowing that I too can create freedom in my life.
There are clear distinctions made in the book between healthy and unhealthy relationships. Within the book there are also practical exercises which encourages us readers to not only recognise the red flags but also take ownership of our journey towards healing. The book doesn't just stop at identification and acknowledgment; it offers actionable steps towards reclaiming our sense of self-worth and creating lasting change. There is guidance for us in this book every step of the way, we just need to be ready to look inwards and take the first step. In conclusion, this book serves as a beacon of hope for anyone trapped in toxic relationships, offering a roadmap towards healing, self-discovery, and ultimately, self-made freedom. I highly recommended this for anyone who is ready to embark on a journey of transformation and reclaim their identity. I would like to add my favourite quote from this book which really stuck with me “The responsibility for their actions is on them, but what you do and what you allow to continue once you have awareness is on you” Thank you Sara ❤️
Sara's book is the missing piece of a jigsaw puzzle. When we feel something is wrong, it gives us so many a-ha feelings and it helps us get our hands on it. Many self help books do this, but this one doesn't stop there. We feel guided to the next level, both practically and spiritually. Sara does it with such a subtle balance between soft empathy and awaken determination - equally important in such a delicate matter.
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You will also receive the FREE BONUS - Relationship Q&A instantly as a PDF in your email.
And you'll be granted entry to my VIP community with additional support.
You don’t need an e-reader or tablet, you can read it on your phone via the Kindle app, Apple Books, Kobo, etc. You can use either the PDF or 'EPUB' format (don't worry - you'll receive both!)
Or you can read it as a PDF in your phone Files, on your laptop, or any other device you prefer to read on.
You will receive both PDF and EPUB files when you purchase.
There are two main differences.
1: It’s written by someone who has 10+ years of experience in dealing with and healing from dysfunctional and narcissistic relationships. I’ve been in your shoes and I’m living proof that my signature self-healing framework that I give you has worked, I’m so grateful to be living not just toxic-free but my dream life since I followed these strategies, all Praises to God.
2: The second - my book is God-centred, and as believers, this should be our reference point for understanding ourselves and our healing. Other books either completely ignore or reject God’s role in our life and therefore any healing achieved without Him is only partial, it’s lacking the most critical and important component. The method considers our values and obligations to God and the people in our lives as Muslims.
The truth is nothing in life is guaranteed, only you have control over how much work you put into yourself and in actively applying what you learn into your life.
What I can guarantee is that this is not ‘just another book’ that sits on your shelf, this is one you can go back to whenever you need a reminder, comfort, validation, and the actionable steps to take immediately.
I can guarantee that the Self-Made Freedom method works when you are honest with yourself, put in the effort, take action, and ask Allah (swt) to give you ease in your journey. This is exactly what I did when following my method, and it has completely transformed my life into one of freedom.
I wrote this book in a way that guides you to personalise it to your situation and you become the driver of the change you want to see in your life.
I should add that in dealing and healing with toxic relationships, I cannot put a timeframe on when you will achieve your desired goal. Particularly, in healing, it’s not something that can be done on a weekend. Healing and addressing yourself is a lifelong journey, taking small, but powerful actions toward yourself and toward God that will bring you peace and freedom.
I also hope to keep providing you with support through my free email newsletter.
This book is not a substitute for therapy or one-on-one coaching sessions. However, this book will provide a significant amount of the same tools and strategies used today by therapists and coaches worldwide. In addition, everything in this book is written with the intention of using your connection to God, to help you in your healing process.
Anyone needing further support, particularly in dealing with emotional trauma should seek this separately.
Yes, it’s available as paperback on Amazon and you can find the link above.
But if you want the accompanying FREE resource and to opt into my VIP private email community and newsletter, then you must send me your proof of purchase by contacting me via email at contact@sarasalih.com.
If you purchase the ebook, you don't have to do anything, you get this all automatically.
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Absolutely! Since it’s a digital product, the item cannot be returned to me, but I still offer a complete money-back guarantee within 14 days of purchase. I believe in the value I give through my words and my work, and I know you will love it as much as I do. But if for any reason, you’re not satisfied, you will get a full refund.
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